Busy bee

The incredible journey of youth holds unpredictable turns .Either we win over it or take that as a lesson .
Being busy is the crucial phase of life . We want to be busy at the same time we don't want to be busy.  
We want to be idly busy or busily idle.
Is it a oxymoron? 
Yes,  an oxymoron of life .
Calling someone and receiving the reply 'am busy ' , is not easily acceptable.
After going through huge memes and Indian dramas , We conclude 'am ignored'.
But actually that person is genuinely busy.So busy that his priority is to work .Even he places himself in the second place and chose work .
This  is a resolute step .Instead of being supportive we become doubtful .Pressurizing and suppressing him turns horrible for him to carry.
Let them be a busy bee and if possible engage yourself in work rather than overthinking. 
Stand beside them and give them time .
Time for introspection and self love .
May be they have huge problems in comparison to you.
You have the same place in his life .So increase your level rather than increasing stress level.


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